New leads June 25, 2006
Posted by charmingbutsingle in Uncategorized.trackback
I’ve spent the past few days revamping my online dating profile. I figured that since I’m paying for another month, I should put some effort into it – a new picture, perhaps. Updating my interests and refining the language. Kind of like getting a virtual haircut and a push-up bra, if you will.
I’ve been e-mailing with two new guys for the past few days. Both are 30. One is a writer and the other is a nurse. Both have cute pictures and messaged me, which is nice.
The down side to the Writer is that he lives about 45 minutes away. I am opposed to this because I want the support of someone in town. I’ve said it before – I don’t want to have to drive more than a half hour for a post-work hug. That’s just not the kind of person I am.
The Nurse looks more promising. He lives in town and we seem to have a lot of things in common. He’s tall. Tall enough that I would only wear heels and still stand shorter than he does. This excites me.
I’m trying not to approach this like a job, but I’m thinking that I should set goals. “Wink” at a certain number of guys. Settle for no going out with no fewer than four or five guys a month. Set tangible benchmarks to measure my dating success – much like I do for projects and tasks in my job.
I’ve also done some rejecting. One guy who was two years younger than I am who seemed too religious for me and didn’t drink. After dealing with the Relief Worker and his judgment, I decided that I didn’t want to have to pretend to not be a social butterfly party girl from the get go to impress a guy. No thank you. The other guy was my age, but had a child. And my name is not Mommy.
Also, The Crier messaged me and apologized for making me feel uncomfortable and asked that I call him to hang out as “friends.”
No thanks.
Try to work the word “frisky” into your profile.
One of my dating rules…Never date someone who “doesn’t drink.” It usually means they’re a recovering alcoholic, a religious zealout, or their a liar. Of course, there is the odd person who doesn’t drink because of medical problems, but who gives a shit anyway.
Approaching it from a business perspective might make it more successful, as long as you’re not making yourself feel weirded out.
I hope you meet some winners and I can’t wait to read about the new men!
Oh goodie! I was hoping you’d give the online bit another shot and that the Crier didn’t ruin it for ya.
He wanted to be friends? Ugh. Yeah right.
I have heard that you have to treat dating as if it were your full-time job. I think setting yourself manageable goals (meeting x number of people) is the way to get this job done!
You are so freaking awesome.
Goodluck on these potential dates!
WHen I was younger I didn’t want to date guys with children either — pretty much for the same reason.
Didn’t some woman write a book about how to get married? I think she had a whole business plan. Could have been a movie though. I avoid relationship help books like the plague so I can’t be too sure. I am not so sure about treating dating like a job - kinda takes the fun out of it, doesn’t it?
I’ve found that guys that don’t drink at all have a holier than thou outlook regardless of their reason for not drinking.
I don’t blame you for not wanting to date a guy with kids. It’s a preference and you’re entitled to it. Kids are great, but I don’t know if I could do that.
Of course, I used to say I wouldn’t date a guy that was divorced…. but that rule’s been broken- but only when they aren’t still crying over it!
I’ve found that guys that don’t drink at all have a holier than thou outlook regardless of their reason for not drinking.
I don’t blame you for not wanting to date a guy with kids. It’s a preference and you’re entitled to it. Kids are great, but I don’t know if I could do that.
Of course, I used to say I wouldn’t date a guy that was divorced…. but that rule’s been broken- but only when they aren’t still crying over it!
Someone cried on your first date?? Now I’m going to have to track back and read about this! You didn’t see The Family Stone on that date, did you? This is my first trip here.. I like.
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